Don't Assume

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The biggest mistake we do often is to assume. We assume that they might have said that. We assume after 'that fight' that the other person doesn't love us. We assume that only he/she was wrong and don't consider the situations, circumstances and their point of view. We assume that our parents won't ever be ready for our own choiced career and partner for marriage. We assume that our one mistake is the biggest and that one failure is gonna define us. We assume and just assume. Whatever it is, talk it over. Ask. Express what you feel and think. Have conversations no matter how uncomfortable they are. Might be that assumption is taking you to the darkest forest but a conversation can reveal to you the actual scenario. You might discover that there was nothing in what you assumed. It might reveal to you that the other person was also feeling the same but just couldn't initiate to talk and love is intact. You may also discover that there is 'yes' from your parents' side which you had been seeking. No, can't, never are only in your mind. Seek that yes, can and ever.
Not having conversation can be the biggest disaster. Because it promotes the pseudo reality in our mind and doesn't consider the actual reality. So have it.