We all are searching for that soulmate who's there in our prayers. We all want that one person whom we wish to align, with our deepest self. We all want a green flag. But are we a green flag? Are we dealing with the stuff going on in our lives? Because when you marry someone, you are not just marrying them physically but also their beliefs, opinions, habits and most importantly fears and traumas. So if you haven't dealt with yours until now, how will you afford that patience to deal with them in their bad times. Do that! Construct that symphony of love, trust and balance of all regards which are needed in a relationship by working on yourself first. And don't chase perfection because nobody is perfect. Find a person who's perfect for you and you be their perfect too. Because eventually all the beauty, attraction and feelings will fade away but what will remain as a need of life is that emotional intimacy and trust to have that person always by your side throughout life.